Ask the Hairy Dogfathers: Grand Day for a Grand-Dog

Published A Few Days Ago
ADVERTISEMENT
fast facts

TopFeatures
1
ADVERTISEMENT

Your daughter’s big day has arrived… but she’s not the one in white, her dog is! A grandmother asks the Hairy Dogfathers for advice about the big day.

Dear Hairy Dogfathers,

From the moment our daughter was born, I held her in my arms, and pictured her life. You know, high school graduation, going off to college, getting married, and having kids of her own. Things didn’t really follow that linear plan, but I am still proud of her. We watched as she grew, always more interested in animals than people. After college she saved and bought a house, and with much carefully research and planning she welcomed her first dog. We enjoyed having a gift under the tree for our “grand dog.” But now, things have gone just a tad weird.

We received a wedding invitation in the mail for our grand dog.

I have no idea how to proceed. As the “grandmother of the groom,” what is my role in all of this? Do people give gifts? Do I wear what I would to a normal wedding? Please don’t laugh. I truly have no idea on how to how to proceed.

Signed, Grandmother of the Groom

Related:Dog Birthday Blues

I apologise, I couldn’t help but snicker, but only because I remember my reaction when I first heard of doggy weddings… but realizing that it wasn’t a joke, I accepted that it’s now a thing people do. It’s nice to see that you have been supporting your daughter in her passion, and I’m sure she has greatly appreciated you making the effort to being so nice to your “grand-dog.” Now buying gifts for special occasions is one thing, but a wedding… I can see how this is a difficult issue for you. My suggestion is to treat the wedding similarly as you other occasions such as Christmas, basically keep the same theme but make it doggy appropriate. Wear something nice, but nothing fancy that may get ruined in dog friendly place. Here’s a gift idea: buy a small gift like his and hers dog bowls. If your daughter has went to the effort of planning this, it’s clear that it’s something she cares about, so support her by making a little effort and ask her if there is anything that you can help with.

Related:True-Love Tips for A Woof-tastic Dog Wedding

Summer is the time for weddings! I am a little bit jealous, but I will keep checking the mail. I am sure my invite is on the way!

Well, honey, this is a party. So act like it! Take this and RUN with it. Call up your daughter and set a date for dress shopping. You don’t need to go crazy and blow the budget, but think of this as a chance to add to your wardrobe. This is a great opportunity for some mother-daughter time. No matter the occasion, it’s going to bring you and your daughter closer together. Perhaps after dress shopping, you two can set a lunch date and go pick out a wedding gift as well.

Honey, be thankful. At least it’s a wedding, not a funeral!

ADVERTISEMENT

ADVERTISEMENT

You May Like

New Research Suggests Training Your Cat Can Help Eliminate His Anxiety

Forget what the haters say. New research suggests that you train cats of all ages, and it''s a great way to lower your kitty''s anxiety.
Cheeks

Cheeks, also known as Pek-A-Chis or Pekachi, are a hybrid between a Chihuahua and a Pekingese. These dogs make fantastic family pets and are low maintenance
Adoptable Dog of the Week: Pete

Our Adoptable Dog of the Week is Pete, a 4 years old Miniature Schnauzer mix from Millersville, Maryland. He is neutered, housebroken, and vaccinated.
Top 10 Healthy Vegetables For Dogs

Mom was onto something! No matter how you slice and dice it, you''ll want to add these top 10 healthy vegetables for dogs into your pooch''s diet.
A Rescuer’s Advice on TNR, Fostering, and Adoption

The idea of cat rescue appeals to you, but there''s so much to do - how can you help? We talk to an expert who spends all her time helping kitties in need.
Schnorgi

Sweet, friendly, and playful, the Schnorgi will bring a lot of joy to your life. This hybrid is a mix of Welsh Corgi and Miniature Schnauzer and will display a combination of traits of the parental breeds.
4 Dog Mushing Mistakes That Make You Look Like a Noob

Bad habits are hard to break, so why not avoid them in the first place? Steer clear of these dog mushing mistakes that make you look like a rookie.
Gen Y Dogma: Puppy Vs. Baby Edition

Is getting a puppy a logical first step toward having kids? Not necessarily. Christina Peden talks about the ways puppies and babies are similar and differen…
Pixie Bob

The Pixie Bob is an active, social cat with a bold and playful spirit. They like to be in multi-animal households, and express themselves vocally.
Afador

A blend of Afghan Hound and Labrador Retriever, the Afador is a perfect pet for families with older children and those with experience as dog owners.
Ask The Hairy Dogfathers: In Need of a Donation Rescue!

After being stood up by a rescue, a pair of grieving pet parents doesn''t know what to do with their dearly departed dog''s possessions.
Product Review: Hagen Vesper V-Tower Cat Furniture

It''s our first cat-related product review! Tester cat Boris (along with human slave Stephen Elmer) climbs his way to the top of Hagen''s new Vesper V-Tower.
All Aboard! Law Allowing Dogs On Amtrak Trains Is On Track

Congressman Jeff Denham gaining traction with bill that allows small pets on Amtrak trains. I always feel guilty leaving my dog behind when I go on adventure…
Best Rawhide Chews for Dogs With Sensitive Stomachs

Dogs love chewing on rawhide, but sometimes it can upset their tummies. Here are the best rawhide chews for dogs with sensitive stomachs.
Best Leather Dog Leashes

Leather dog leashes are a stylish, durable, and convenient solution for keeping our pets under control on walks- here is out selection of the best options.